Many guys want to know how to succeed with women by being a jerk, not because they are actually jerks, but because they are sick of being the “good guy” that gets walked all over and never gets to get with the type of girls that the “jerks” do. If this sounds a lot like you, then you’ve got to read this.

What’s really going on here actually has very little to do with the jerk. The truth is that women are not automatically attracted to bad boys so much as they are instantly repelled by boring nice guys.

If you were a gorgeous women with her pick of the litter, you would not want anything to do with uninteresting men either. Women may be from Venus and men may be from Mars, but I’m sure you can agree that life is too short to spend with boring people.

So why would you expect a woman to be any different? No matter what your mother taught you, you cannot bore a woman into liking you. I know that’s not what you’re trying to do, but the sooner you realize how you’re coming across to women, the better.

To succeed with women by being a jerk is to realize that crossing the line isn’t actually a bad thing. It’s not actually being a jerk. To a woman, a man who tip toes around her and worships her is not a nice guy. He is just a wimp.

Sucking up to women is just completely ineffective, and there is actually no advantage to exhibiting this sort of behavior. Be yourself and tell women what is really on your mind, even if you’re going to be ruffling her feathers by doing so! She will be relieved that you are a real guy and not just another suck up.

You want to know what the funny thing is about all this? If you understand the actual reasons that women love jerks, then you won’t have to actually be a jerk if you don’t want to be one. If you know how to be refreshing and entertaining, you can be as nice or as mean as you want to be, and still get with the kind of women that you want to. Don’t believe society’s hype about nice guys!

Whether you’re a nice guy or a jerk really isn’t the issue. Just remember what women are really attracted to, and you will attract them. It isn’t rocket science; it really is that simple.

Here are some books that you should definitely pick up if you really want to start developing a personality that is attractive to women: Art of Approaching Review and Magic Bullets by Nick Savoy.