To the casual perceiver, it looks extremely evident that women are genetically coded to be attracted to guys with a sense of humor. All The Same, this is only a percentage of the actual truth that seems to confuse all but the most observant men.

Actually, the most powerful weapon that a man has to attract women is his flirting skill. To flirt is to interact with women in both a provocative and humorous manner at the same time.

Why is flirting such a vital part of your interactions with women?

Never forget that flirting is the be-all and end-all of your interaction with a women. Without flirting, you are lost. I’ll come back to that in a bit, but first allow me to explain why just being a funny guy isn’t enough to attract women. At least, not in the way that you want to attract them.

It’s obvious that we all love to have a good laugh, and gorgeous women are definitely no exception. Still, just because someone makes you laugh does not make them a candidate for lover, right? The same goes for women as well. All making them laugh (without using flirtatious humor) accomplishes is that it makes women think of you as “just a friend.”

Some guys may read this and take it to mean that they should go full force on a woman, laying the sweet talk on thick. Nothing could be further from the truth. You have to avoid being overbearing to a woman, or you will just freak her out and think you are some sort of bad guy. So what do you do? You mix humor in with your sweet talk. You appeal to her romantic side while making her laugh to disarm her.

This is where it gets difficult for most men. You have to learn to make it obvious that you are interested in a woman in a romantic or physical way without scaring her off. It definitely takes practice, but it is something that can be mastered by any man. And you know what? Learning how to do this is a lot of fun!

Don’t make the mistake that many guys do by becoming a clown or a buffoon. This may get laughs from a woman, but it will not make her feel any sort of romantic connection with you. To make this romantic connection a reality, you always must get the balance right.

Buffoons are not attractive to good looking girls.

If you learn just a single thing from this article, I hope that it’s this: rather than attempting to figure out how to make women laugh, learn how to make women comfortable, entertained, and attracted. That’s how you achieve true success with women.

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