Have you ever heard someone say that you have to make sure every single thing you say to a girl has to be unexpected or out of the ordinary when you first meet her, or she’ll lose interest?

I have a different view. I think you can use ordinary boring conversational topics to your advantage, if you do it right. And I’ll teach you how to do it right.

Which “typical” questions are at issue here?

What’s your occupation?

Are you studying for a big exam?

Have any children?

Where did you grow up?

Can those questions lead to a dead conversation? Yes. Do they have to? No.

This is the magic formula:

TYPICAL QUESTION FLIRTING FORMULA: after she responds to your “typical question”, be ready to be PLAYFUL with her answer.

I will often, very early in the conversation, ask a woman what she does for a living, or, ifshe’s in school, I’ll ask her what she’s studying.

But after I get a response from her, I get playful with her response.

Like this:

If she says she walks dogs for a living, I’ll say “Shoot, I was going to bring my dog to the coffee shop today, but decided not to. You would have totally walked my dog all over the coffee shop, right?”

She laughs. She feels like you value her for something other than her looks. And you frame the interaction as one of her being ready to SERVE you in some way.

It’s fun, it’s fresh, and you can use it all the time.

Take this approach for a spin. Use it on women you’re interested in, and even one’s you’re not interested in. It doesn’t hurt to get the practice in, and put a smile on someone’s face.

Use it with store clerks, your aunts at the family reunion, little old ladies. They all love it!

Let Tyler Paxon teach you how to flirt with a girl or a guy. Take his free flirting assessment at http://how2flirt.com